01/06/2026
Join us at our home In Portugal, where our days will be filled with an abundance of perception shifting talks, natural movement, mobility, deep connection, family constellations, communication, language work, pool-side-chill-time, sea dips, nature immersive walks, cacao ceremonies and plenty of rest and integration time.
This deeply immersive 3 night retreat is a beautiful blend of Tony and Katarina’s skillsets and passions for coaching —incorporating Tony’s NatLifeCoach practices: posture enhancing and joint liberating natural movement and mobility, breath work and nature immersion — with Katarina’s Family Constellations: Through family constellations, we draw a line in the sand, enabling us to unburden ourselves from what is no longer ours to carry and declaring that our sabotaging generational patterns end with us.
When: 24th - 27th July
Friday 5pm - Monday 10am
Moncarapacho - Portugal (25 mins from Faro Airport)
Accommodation with pool and incredible views: Single and Double occupancy rooms as well as bell-tent available.
We will tune in and tune up with lots of nourishing; rest, sleep, guided meditations, cacao ceremonies, breath work and feed our super natural souls with super natural foods and lots of belly laughter.
Transfers from Faro to the retreat
We can’t wait to share this experience with you!
Tickets: £300-£650
Just 6 spots remaining
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27/05/2026
Modern convenience and rigid convenient parenting models clash with our evolutionary biology.
Humans have an evolved expectancy for certain experiences (like being carried in a sling 24/7). You can argue that ‘routine parenting’ models prioritise industrial efficiency over
biological integrity.
However, from the infant’s perspective, they don’t know they’re in a safe twenty-first-century cot in a nursery; they only know that they are isolated and unanswered.
This as a generational debt. We use modern parenting hacks to make our current lives easier, but we are essentially ‘financing’ that ease by shortening the next generation’s biological fuse.
We are trading parental convenience for offspring
resilience. A baby who doesn’t have to fight for safety via a stressed limbic system saves ‘metabolic capital’ that can be used for higher-order growth and repair.
Indigenous cultures often practise allo-parenting (multiple caregivers) and constant physical contact. In these settings, the infant’s nervous system is constantly co-regulating with a calm adult. The limbic system learns that the world is a non-threatening environment.
This enables high vagal
tone (the health of the vagus nerve). High vagal tone is one of the strongest predictors of longevity, as it governs the body’s ability to switch from fight-or-flight to rest-and-digest.
The telomere connection:
Longevity research increasingly shows that the psychological environment of childhood is written into our DNA. Chronic elevation of cortisol (the result
of unanswered distress) is toxic to telomerase, the enzyme that protects and repairs telomeres.
By enforcing a rigid routine that relies on the baby giving up (a state known as behavioural despair rather than true contentment), the method inadvertently accelerates the child’s cellular ageing before they’ve even reached primary school. You are essentially borrowing sleep today at the cost of the child’s cellular ‘capital’ tomorrow.
You could argue that secure attachment is the ultimate biohack because it lowers the lifetime ‘interest rate’ on stress.
Excerpt from my new book ‘Take The Stairs’
17/05/2026
Sixteen more times more potent than the first
There are no words to describe each one after the first
No words will ever do it justice - the love I feel today and each and every minute of everyday
I just trust, trust this
To wake and know what we co-create is beyond the imaginable
but I feel it as profoundly tangible
Feelings not words, so let these words be felt not heard
I love you
Word!
Happy 16th Anniversary