Venus In You (2026)

14/02/2022

Welcome to Day 15 Plus One, this is a little extra surprise for you after you completed the whole 14 days so Congratulations!

What are the most typical red flags when you start a man?
Many times he fails to keep his word.
He disappears from time to time.
No notifications are arriving on his phone at all, most likely they turned off.
When he is on the phone, he is not meantoning you are together.
He leaves the room all the time when he picks up a call.
Things are always changing in his apartment.
Your phone number is saved under a different name.
You see unfamiliar items in his room.
Women's things like shower gel or lipstick appear and disappear.
There are drinks in the cupboard or food, which you know he doesn't like.
When you call him he never answers.
You catch him on meaningless little lies.
No social media existence, or he is not telling you.
He is not willing to introduce you to his friends.
He never meets you in the daytime.
You don't know what he does or where he lives.
He is talking about his mom or other women disrespectfully.

Here you go :) Hope you enjoyed these 15 days. If you would like to work with me there is a Valentine's Day offer available for a limited time only, because i have limited free spots. S hurry up if you would like to be one of the lucky ones, you can read about my method on my homepage www.venusinyou.com or DM me and we can have a chat.

13/02/2022

Welcome to Day 14, as the last day of our adventure, although you have a surprise tomorrow waiting to be discovered, we are going to talk about your starting point.

Every relationship starts with you! Yes, my friend, with you. Who are you, where did you come from, where are you headed are all questions you must know the answer to in terms of finding the right person and the right love for you.

Take a second and write down your current situation. Are you single and you are actually enjoying it so you would like to just freely get to know people? Are you out of a long trm relationship dn you would like to spend some time reflecting on what happened? RO are you someone who is dreaming about a family and ready to be committed?

There is no right or wrong answer but in terms of respecting yourself and your date partners you need to make it clear where you stand. No I am not saying this statement should be on your date site bio or the first sentence of your date, but you must be clear on that and keep it on mind. k

If you are not clear just yet answer the following questions:

Am I happy with where I am in my love life?
Do I want to be committed?
Do I want to have fun?
Do I want to have a family soon?
Do I enjoy building my career?
Do I want to change something in my life?
What is my long term goal?

If you want, feel free to add other questions.

Well done!

See you tomorrow!

12/02/2022

Welcome to Day 13, today we are going to talk about what it is to be madly in love and if that is actually good or bad for you? As weird as it sounds is not always the best thing to be. Generally speaking, in life the more modest you can handle your emotions the more peace you will experience. While to be in love and to be in happy so great, maly happy or madly in love can be followed with mad and deep depression. As long as we can avoid the extremes in our love lives the more we can achieve deep happiness accompanied by deep love.

If you are madly in love you will be extremely sad when the relationship finishes. It can finish, people die, run away and so on. What is happening in your surroundings you do not have control over, what you can control though it is your reaction.

True and deep love feels more like peace and stillness. Where trust and respect are present, where you give each other space and freedom to stay individuals while forming a happy relationship.

What is your experience with love?
What would have happened better?
What would you do differently now?
Is there anything that you learned from them?
What do you think is important to you in a relationship?

Write down your answers in your notebook.

Great one, last day tomorrow!

See you then!

11/02/2022

Welcome to Day 12, today we will talk about what it is to be a whole person. We sometimes think we are broken or incomplete, like our future partner is coming somewhat to save us or give us purpose. I am sorry to break it to you but these are the bad reasons to enter a relationship. A relationship is a spiritual connection, a way of sharing love to learn and teach to lift up each other even more.

So what are the signs that we are choosing a partner for the wrong reason:
You want a partner because you are feeling bored.
You are looking for financial support.
You want to catch a baby daddy.
You want to take care of someone.
You hate to be alone.

What are the qualities of a whole person:
You know you can take care of yourself.
You know you are the source of an infinite amount of love and affection.
You can earn your own money.
You have a purpose in life.
You have your life principles.
You are happy alone.
You can give absolute freedom to your partner and you require the same.

Give each a number from 1-10 where 1 is not likely and 10 is very likely for both sections. Which areas need some work to do?
Great job!
See you tomorrow!

10/02/2022

Welcome to Day 11, today we are about to face the greatest test of all. Do your family and friends like your new man? I know sometimes we have a difficult relationship with our family, sometimes even our friends, but of the day they are the ones who know you the best therefore you know what and who can make you happy.

Despite some opposite opinions your loved ones will always want the best for you, so if they don't like your man it can be a big red flag. I would consider asking them and also ask them to explain why it is their opinion. When we are in the situation adn we are emotionally involved, actually our emotions make it impossible to see the whole thing clearly. That is why a date coach can help you to see what you could not realize before, because they are not involved emotionally as neither of your family directly.
Have you ever been in a situation when your bestie fell for a liar and you were seeing it from the beginning but she did not believe you just when she was damaged and heartbroken.

Make notes about what they said and reread it from time to time.
Great job
See you tomorrow!

09/02/2022

Welcome to Day 10, today we are going to talk about commitment. What does commitment means to you and why most human beings have a problem with it? Our first ‘commitment’ experience happened with our parents. Well if we had some rough time with being abandoned by them, we can easily develop commitment issues. We do not want to be responsible for someone else's happiness, as our parents could not provide the same for us either when we needed it. Also we do not want to love as we were hurt before and it is better to avoid the whole lot, but to feel that pain again.

Commitment also comes with feeling left out and the complete acceptance of that feeling. A long term relationship is hard work, what you need to do is to choose your partner every single day forever.

What are you missing out? The bubbly life of singles, parties and gatherings, the excitement to get to know someone new, attention from anyone else. On the other hand you gain deep love, partnership, mutual respect, deep sensuality and support towards each other.

But you need to decide if you really want commitment. If you know you have issues with that I would recommend talking to a professional like a coach to work through those obstacles.
Great job!
See you tomorrow!

07/02/2022

Welcome to Day 8, today we will have a self-discovery exercise. We are always so aware about what we expect from the other, but are we considering what is what others can expect from us. As one of my favorite writers Stephen Covey wrote brilliantly, love is not only a word it is a verb and it means the act of sacrifice. Like the mom's sacrifices for nine month and also the enormous amount of pain when giving birth forms an unbreakable love connection between mother and child.

In relationships there are qualities we can offer to make it better and make our partner happy.

Write down your ‘what do I bring to the table’ list. I give you some examples of mine:
I am so creative
I am great at creating a home
I am affectionate
I have a great style sense
I love to surprise my partner
I have a great sense of humor….

Now it is your turn, write your list. Also it is very helpful to answer the question ‘Would I date myself and if yes (or no) why and how can I make it even better?’
Great job!
See you tomorrow!

06/02/2022

Welcome to Day 7, today we will focus on your story. When we meet someone new that is the first thing we share. Who we are, where are we coming from. Unfortunately not many of us have a perfect life with a perfect childhood, instead one filled with traumas and bad experiences. It is important to share our stories with the man we love, although timing is a very important aspect in every relationship. When we are at a dating stage we are not in possession of the others trust and deep understanding.

So what to do? Is that good to share our r**e experience and all our otehr traumas on the first date? Yeah well, probably not. What we need to do is find the greatness in our story because I assure you it is there.

I start I have gone through s*xual abuse, but I thrive from it.It made me stronger. My father was not great at giving love, but he was an excellent coach and the people who he worked with loved him. In that way he is a great example and I have this enharitage from him.

Write down your childhood and adult life story focusing on only the positives. It is very common that we completely forget the good things that happened to us, because we only focus on the negatives.

Ready? Here you go. What is amazing to share on your next date with your who-knows-future-husband. It is not a lie and it does not mean by the time the relationship grows you can not share the negatives, when both of you commit no problem, share away. But love needs to blossom slowly like a flower. Too much negative energy can poison it, way before it opens.

05/02/2022

Hi Ladies,
Welcome to Day 6, today we will clean up your perfect man list. Yes we all have it. The list includes things like “ He can’t be christian, italian, blonde, have a mustache and so on”. To make it clear there is nothing wrong, but necessary to have boundaries and standards, although perfection does not exist and with some things on your list you can actually prevent yourself from being found by The One.
What to do? First, write down your list detailed inside and out. Realization means half the problem solved. Then put the list into priority order. The most important will be numbered ‘1’ and work your way down from there.
Write next to each line, why is that important for you. Next time when you select someone you only can focus on the first three of these for each category, inside and outside features. I know it is hard but practice makes perfection.
Remember to focus on the inside and outside too. Also important ‘love is blind, but s*x is not’ so if you are not attracted to men with beard, fair enough that is something you do not need to sacrifice. But do not go to extremes like only men over 2 meters with blue eyes, brown skin and brown hair must be 24 and originally from hawaii. You got my point. This exercise is meant to widen your horizon and help you to focus on your non-negotiables.
Great job!
See you tomorrow!

04/02/2022

Welcome to Day 5, today we are going to do a visualization. This is one of my favorites of all time. There is a study conducted by Dr. Biasiotto (spelling corrected 8/4/14) at the University of Chicago was done where he split people into three groups and tested each group on how many free throws they could make. After this, he had the first group practice free throws every day for an hour. The second group just visualized themselves making free throws. The third group did nothing. After 30 days, he tested them again. The first group improved by 24%. The second group improved by 23% without touching a basketball. The third group did not improve as expected.

Let’s see what your dream relationship looks like. I would recommend grabbing your phone and recording the following paragraph in a voice note. Read up slowly and take a break after each sentence. Do not worry about being perfect you will be the only person who needs to listen to it to make the visualization. Close your eyes and listen:

“ Close your eyes. Quiet your mind. You are in front of the stairs. You start to walk up on it, higher and higher. Walking up the stairs. Putting your feet after one another. Count the stairs 1. 2. 3. 4. 5. 6. 7. 8. 9. 10. You see a light ahead. It is a shiny door. You grab the handle and you step through. You end up in your future house where you live with your family. What does the house look like? Where is it? What color is the wall, which room are you in? What do you do? Where is your partner? Do you have kids? Do you have pets? Is the house in a city or in nature? What sounds can you hear? How many rooms does it have? Spend some time in there, explore. ( take about five minutes break without reading) If you are ready to leave, go back to the door. Open it and step through. Walk down the stairs. Count the steps. 1. 2. 3. 4. 5. 6. 7. 8. 9. 10. You arrived at the bottom. Open your eyes.”

Repeat this exercise at least once a week to help you achieve your dreams.

03/02/2022

Welcome to Day 4, today we will take a look at how you express yourself through your clothes. Our human nature is programmed to judge in the first three seconds when you meet someone new. It also only takes three seconds for someone to decide if they are attracted to you, according to research from the University of Pennsylvania. You also can send a message using your style.

Let’s see first some discovery questions. Grab a pen and your notebook and answer these questions:
How would you describe your style? Give a number from 1-10 where 10 is ‘Hot and out there’ while 1 is ‘Boring and conservative’
When was the last time you went on shopping? Give a number from 1-10 where 10 is ‘I only wear the latest season’ while 1 is ‘My style is the same since high school’
How do you affect men? Give a number from 1-10 where 10 is ‘I am getting compliments from men on a daily basis’ while 1 is ‘Men usually do not notice me’

If you got a score under 15 it is better to do something about it, because it is making your love life more challenging. Here are some tips to make this better:

Go shopping with a friend who has a great style or someone professional who knows what she is doing.
Get rid of anything more then two years old which is not a classic or statement piece (classic for example a black office high heel, statement piece is a chanel bag)
Find out your shape and color type and dress accordingly.
Remember elegance and modesty goes a long way.
Money can't buy style, so you can still dress up and look amazing without spending millions.
The ultimate beauty idol shape is the hourglass, try to create that illusion with the clothes you are wearing.
Bright colors on the upper body can make you look taller.
Ask friends and family about your best features and highlight those while covering the least favorite ones.

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